when others can’t handle your light

you are made of light, via livlane.com

Want to know the hardest thing about deciding to let the real you shine through? Not everyone is prepared to handle your light.

Think of a time when you were in a dark room – maybe resting, maybe meditating, maybe just tiptoeing your way through – and someone flipped on the lights. Whoa! It was like an assault on your senses, right? You probably shielded your eyes, turned away, maybe even lashed out at the person responsible for all that unexpected, unwelcome light.

There are people in this world who live like that, day in and day out, walking through the dark. You know some of them, right? Every time you say something kind, share something enlightening, or encourage them a little they act as if you’ve just flipped on a big, bright light in the comfy dark room that is their life. They whine, they turn their backs, they shield their eyes.

A couple of years ago, I heard from a woman who loves to print out inspiring quotes and hand them out to her co-workers just to brighten their days. So sweet, right? Apparently, she handed out copies of an art poem I’d posted here. One of her co-workers – known for being particularly grouchy – read the words and grimaced, saying she didn’t like it or need it. Ouch.

The woman who had shared it felt disheartened and defeated…wondering why she had even bothered. But a few days later, she noticed the poem taped up inside her co-worker’s cubicle. She asked how it got there and her co-worker teared up, saying she realized she did like it after all and she knew she needed to see its motivating message every day. Apparently, it just took a little time for her eyes to adjust to the light.

You never know when what you do or say will illuminate possibility and hope for someone who needs it.

That said, please be careful, lightworkers. Spending lots of time with someone who doesn’t value your light can actually dim your light. You must recharge with other bright lights – family, friends and mentors who reflect and honor your inner sparks. You’ve got a light inside you that is so special, so divine, so needed in a world full of dark corners. So take good care of it – and let it shine, let it shine, let it shine.

Liv Lane

Liv Lane

As an intuitive adviser, author & teacher, I help brave-hearted women illuminate their paths to purpose through powerful classes, individual readings, workshops and writings. This blog, started in 2006, chronicles my journey and offers light for yours. Thrilled you're here!
Liv Lane